tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post2387475028693148864..comments2024-03-27T13:32:06.780-02:30Comments on The Other Side of Eighty: GiftsWisewebwomanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-3023789532089850262016-03-05T18:12:13.692-03:302016-03-05T18:12:13.692-03:30You seem to be very good at reaching out to get th...You seem to be very good at reaching out to get the help you need to pull out of these things. Best.Hattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13297404386730167834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-87076106805200314252016-03-04T19:56:46.765-03:302016-03-04T19:56:46.765-03:30Thanks GM, funny you should say all these profound...Thanks GM, funny you should say all these profound thoughts, as I just finished a conversation with Daughter (who is immensely wise when I let her :) )and she reinforced what you said and also suggested changes which I'd been thinking about too. You're on the radar dear missus and I would love to see you again too in quieter surroundings and not on the opening of my play, LOL<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-34174199113615105702016-03-04T18:00:42.277-03:302016-03-04T18:00:42.277-03:30A diagnosis of illness can feel devastating, but w...A diagnosis of illness can feel devastating, but we must remember that the 'illness' did not begin on the day the results came in... it had been lodging within us for months or sometimes years and we have been living normally: eating, sleeping, travelling and sharing time & laughter with friends & family. None of us are promised tomorrow. That is why we should greet each day as if it were the first but live it as if it were to be our last. In other words: Live for each precious moment. <br /><br />Over ten years ago I was diagnosed with a heart condition - a family failing on my mother's side that affects both male and females. It was made clear to me that I might keel over during an episode and not get up. I chose not to sit scared in my corner but to listen to my body and make the most of the good times. One of those good times was meeting you when you came to Ireland. may there be many more such visits. Virtual hugs missus, from your pal across the pond.<br /><br />Grannymarhttp://grannymar.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-48397808390730973352016-03-03T22:02:06.290-03:302016-03-03T22:02:06.290-03:30Lovely to see you on here BG - I've often thou...Lovely to see you on here BG - I've often thought of you.<br /><br />Thanks for the hugs.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-91105875331195887362016-03-03T19:43:57.479-03:302016-03-03T19:43:57.479-03:30Hugs, WWW. Hugs, WWW. BayGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10933199694750403822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-46976730329562863712016-03-03T13:17:56.387-03:302016-03-03T13:17:56.387-03:30Thanks Ramana. Points taken. No guarantees, right?...Thanks Ramana. Points taken. No guarantees, right?<br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-78803230622574912022016-03-03T10:36:06.309-03:302016-03-03T10:36:06.309-03:30What a beautiful last paragraph. I would change o...What a beautiful last paragraph. I would change only one sentence in that. Instead of "your last few precious years", I would say, "the time you still have". Otherwise, so well put.Rummuserhttp://www.rummuser.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-66635018420528385642016-03-03T01:17:35.080-03:302016-03-03T01:17:35.080-03:30SJG - there are no guarantees, really and I believ...SJG - there are no guarantees, really and I believe if we treat our years as precious and few we do more with them, focus on what matters, you know? Some days I feel the beat of rushing wings and am mindful of what has happened to oh so many friends, not just the last pile-up.<br /><br />Thank you for your lovely words. Namaste!<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-17736826268732964812016-03-03T00:48:43.455-03:302016-03-03T00:48:43.455-03:30"Your last few precious years" makes it ..."Your last few precious years" makes it sound like you're not long for this world! From what I know of your age, you've got a lot of good years left to enjoy life, and from your writing I feel that you DO enjoy your life, tough as the last couple years have been. Am I mistaken? You do write beautifully and meaningfully too; it's a pleasure to know you.Blondi Blathershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15656970490122824720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-4424257788316372112016-03-02T23:48:08.536-03:302016-03-02T23:48:08.536-03:30Room is so important Tom, we need to take time but...Room is so important Tom, we need to take time but I do have a sense of urgency now trying to carve extra chunks to finish projects and move into the light.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-52118102182122691832016-03-02T23:47:21.678-03:302016-03-02T23:47:21.678-03:30Joared: Yes time is of the essence now. He truly h...Joared: Yes time is of the essence now. He truly helps me to sort these sometimes conflicting emotions and loneliness. WE can transform loss. New friendships are often a performance piece for me. Hard to explain. I try to fit myself....<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-90299631537875497142016-03-02T23:45:29.363-03:302016-03-02T23:45:29.363-03:30Yes, he is one of a kind. I'm arranging for hi...Yes, he is one of a kind. I'm arranging for him to conduct a seminar locally, he does this as part of his life's work. He is gifted. I do hope you sort yourself, E - all in your time. Nobody can rush another's process.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-49727935437869778162016-03-02T23:43:43.887-03:302016-03-02T23:43:43.887-03:30No the place isn't bad, truly Friko, just chan...No the place isn't bad, truly Friko, just changing and evolving. And yes, I do write freely on this blog, I receive private emails telling me how much it means to others and that is such a gift too.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-73161824831728000782016-03-02T23:42:29.612-03:302016-03-02T23:42:29.612-03:30So very happy for you Ernestine, I know how much y...So very happy for you Ernestine, I know how much you value the time you spend with him, and he your time also.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-85422897195344812682016-03-02T21:56:19.923-03:302016-03-02T21:56:19.923-03:30Room to honor your memories, room to honor yoursel...Room to honor your memories, room to honor yourself. I like that.Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08611148987085476580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-73092854211387767572016-03-02T21:32:36.782-03:302016-03-02T21:32:36.782-03:30Ah, yes, when dear ones are gone "the shared ...Ah, yes, when dear ones are gone "the shared history, depth, no way that can be replaced." Perhaps, to some extent, pouring some of this into writing here, other creative efforts, do, indeed, nourish the spirit. If so inclined, finding new individuals with whom we might develop a deep relationship does not readily occur and the time to do so may be compacted.joaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09999395062839739698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-85027915652780778242016-03-02T21:27:20.288-03:302016-03-02T21:27:20.288-03:30I like this man's perspective and advice and y...I like this man's perspective and advice and you do confide in your fellow bloggers probably because you know we won't march into your town and blab...My soul also needs nurturing, something unlikely to happen in my present environs, so I must figure out what to do...Look after yourself, please. hugs!ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11376645220662546020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-19886075981428986142016-03-02T20:01:01.563-03:302016-03-02T20:01:01.563-03:30Having read your previous posts I would say that y...Having read your previous posts I would say that you do confide in someone else: your blog. And the people who read it.<br /><br />You trust us with your innermost feelings. I think that trust is justified.<br /><br />I am sorry you are in a bad place. This too shall pass. Everything always does, one way or another.Frikohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04277167831642088694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-29870756248288732572016-03-02T18:21:45.715-03:302016-03-02T18:21:45.715-03:30Oh how I understand...
My spirit needs nurturing a...Oh how I understand...<br />My spirit needs nurturing also.<br />I will be so happy when my son arrives in 3 weeks.<br />It seems he understands to a different level<br />his mama<br />then his sisters.<br />Please take care.....My Journey To Mindfulnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15743386000772274656noreply@blogger.com