tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post2701050108245609346..comments2024-03-27T13:32:06.780-02:30Comments on The Other Side of Eighty: She saysWisewebwomanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-34097312182767592012016-06-02T01:23:19.657-02:302016-06-02T01:23:19.657-02:30Tough times for her, and you are a blessing and a ...Tough times for her, and you are a blessing and a resource for her on how to tip and so much more.Terra https://www.blogger.com/profile/04396481049075747940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-74400176706137574772016-05-29T17:22:07.153-02:302016-05-29T17:22:07.153-02:30It sounds like my mother it many ways. I'm gla...It sounds like my mother it many ways. I'm glad your friend has you, it sounds like she really needs an escape. That's something I know about too. LL Cool Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13916666100971008775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-11970748089746075182016-05-27T01:15:13.883-02:302016-05-27T01:15:13.883-02:30Some people suffer levels of deprivation we can...Some people suffer levels of deprivation we can't even imagine. Hattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02621439195920479957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-81078630969322513252016-05-24T16:35:47.867-02:302016-05-24T16:35:47.867-02:30Oh my pajama sister! I think PJS should be accepta...Oh my pajama sister! I think PJS should be acceptable wear at anything, LOL.<br />I've been negligent of blogs I must get back in the saddle.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-44818979155801870892016-05-24T16:34:24.050-02:302016-05-24T16:34:24.050-02:30Thanks Mike. She's doing very well. I get many...Thanks Mike. She's doing very well. I get many texts, she had first court appearance today and it was rescheduled to mid June, which I think is good, she'll be stronger then if she keeps up the good work.<br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-50060020203492743912016-05-24T13:26:50.412-02:302016-05-24T13:26:50.412-02:30so happy she has you
and you have her
take care
...so happy she has you<br />and you have her<br /> <br />take care<br />it is 10 in the morning<br />and just came in from the garden<br />and my pajamas are still on :)My Journey To Mindfulnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15743386000772274656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-19776597912678970292016-05-24T00:24:36.541-02:302016-05-24T00:24:36.541-02:30Well, damn, this is the best story/post/whatever I...Well, damn, this is the best story/post/whatever I've read in some time. I hope it's going well, and as you would hope. I know these sometimes have mixed endings, not as well, or not a how we'd like. bet damn, to even be involved in one must be fun and delightful and fulfilling. Good job. <br />Cheers, Mike. <br />Let me know if I can do anything. <br />Should Fish Morehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13038376492887695725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-82057629202554084132016-05-23T17:24:12.400-02:302016-05-23T17:24:12.400-02:30A two way street Barbara, she fills mine too.
XO
...A two way street Barbara, she fills mine too.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-82807203709936325212016-05-23T16:00:05.579-02:302016-05-23T16:00:05.579-02:30She really needed you in her life right that momen...She really needed you in her life right that moment.Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16894294588507668479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-27762933727093841132016-05-23T13:46:27.532-02:302016-05-23T13:46:27.532-02:30Interesting E - I said that to her but the penny d...Interesting E - I said that to her but the penny didn't even drop, she immediately talked about her own daughter.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-33013286446476920162016-05-23T13:45:20.827-02:302016-05-23T13:45:20.827-02:30And really lucky that her parents opened their doo...And really lucky that her parents opened their doors to her. I see multi-generational dysfunction here. I'm still living it myself with all the shunning that goes on in my own family. So I can relate to wounded families intensely. I knew you'd understand too Ramana.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-70083099352954296992016-05-23T13:43:35.546-02:302016-05-23T13:43:35.546-02:30Well the repercussions of all this have spilled ov...Well the repercussions of all this have spilled over on to herself and her sisters but they did take her back in when every door was closed. Conditionally. Which is good.<br />We can only hope.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-21372201608916435942016-05-23T13:42:13.224-02:302016-05-23T13:42:13.224-02:30I've learned a lot over the years, RJA, I love...I've learned a lot over the years, RJA, I love this woman but I do have a protective shell on myself. I've seen oh so many not make it. She is on the edge and I see that. She may not even get her kids back after the court case. She is volatile and an addict. If her parents hadn't taken her in she would literally be on the street and wouldn't survive.<br /><br />I hear you my friend.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-27016904938714094822016-05-23T13:40:20.924-02:302016-05-23T13:40:20.924-02:30It is, it was but hopefully in the future she will...It is, it was but hopefully in the future she will survive to make something of her life.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-53130149969883674022016-05-23T13:03:27.199-02:302016-05-23T13:03:27.199-02:30I can relate to your friend's angst. She is l...I can relate to your friend's angst. She is lucky to have you to let some steam off in the presence of.Rummuserhttp://www.rummuser.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-49410780247142217062016-05-23T11:03:36.394-02:302016-05-23T11:03:36.394-02:30I can't imagine what it's like to have suc...I can't imagine what it's like to have such a dreadful mother. Dealing with her must be a nightmare. As e says, she should just save money and escape.nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10472673041193755894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-63552304099671279322016-05-23T08:11:14.475-02:302016-05-23T08:11:14.475-02:30I do hate to be a downer, but my concern is only f...I do hate to be a downer, but my concern is only for you. Do proceed with a degree of caution. Sometimes these matters can become more complicated and painful to deal with than is initially anticipated. I hope you understand what I'm saying.R J Adamshttps://sparrowchat.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-52891477286626830052016-05-23T01:13:09.278-02:302016-05-23T01:13:09.278-02:30Thank you for being a friend and mentor. Perhaps o...Thank you for being a friend and mentor. Perhaps one day, she'll be able to do the same for another woman.ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11376645220662546020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-12684329281670362222016-05-22T23:50:23.182-02:302016-05-22T23:50:23.182-02:30What a challenge life presents the person you writ...What a challenge life presents the person you write about. Good that you can offer some support as you do. Life can be truly complicated. joaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09999395062839739698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-48620868504604104472016-05-22T23:35:24.010-02:302016-05-22T23:35:24.010-02:30I do believe the mother is hopeless. The father se...I do believe the mother is hopeless. The father sent me a gift the other day so there is hope there. She sees her children for a few hours on Wednesday. she has a court appearance on Tuesday :(.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-41108912194554101272016-05-22T23:33:59.814-02:302016-05-22T23:33:59.814-02:30I do. And she has secreted money away. I try not t...I do. And she has secreted money away. I try not to assault her with too much information. A small step at a time. Just learning to speak to people in a non-aggressive way is a huge hurdle for her. It is all breaking my heart. But her courage is so inspiring. And humbling.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-23149225677123466862016-05-22T21:35:46.272-02:302016-05-22T21:35:46.272-02:30Wow, what a powerful vignette .. I sure do hope th...Wow, what a powerful vignette .. I sure do hope things get better for her (and her mother).Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08611148987085476580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14874528.post-46910177058886785802016-05-22T19:28:13.179-02:302016-05-22T19:28:13.179-02:30That you love her is obvious...please teach er abo...That you love her is obvious...please teach er about correct tipping and how to save her money so that someday she can escape this nightmare...ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11376645220662546020noreply@blogger.com