Saturday, October 04, 2014
Taking Down the Scaffolding Part 2
See Part 1 here.
By scaffolding I mean memories. Pieces of the memory banks no longer shared with the participants. And my friend Allen held a chunk of joint memories.
I met him and his family through his sister, Judy, a dear friend. But I'll back up even further on the lives of the Butons (last name changed to protect their anonymity).
They were staunch Quebecers. And in that gifted way of most Quebecers spoke both English and French fluently.
The first tragedy in their family befell them when Judy was 13, Allen was 15 and their baby brother, Michel, was 3. Their father went off to hunt in the woods one Saturday morning and killed himself in their cabin with his own shotgun. No note. No reason. Just a legacy of puzzlement and grief and anger and despair.
Their mother, Cecile, had to go outside the home and find work just about immediately as Papa had left them virtually bankrupt.
Allen worked part-time to help the family and also attended college for a business degree and then started up his own small company.
He then married his high school sweetheart who had sustained him during the crisis of his father's death.
There was an economic meltdown in Quebec in the eighties (most Quebec based English businesses and head offices moved to Ontario during that period due to the enforcement of the French language by the language police).
It broke the Butons' hearts to leave their birth province but they did. The impact of so many corporations abandoning Quebec for Ontario put Allen's own small business (an import/export) in jeopardy so they "jumped ship". Successfully as it turned out.
To be continued.