At times, even in old age and with certain political leanings, a table of strangers can prove to be one of the most gregarious and warm times we may have.
As one of my advance birthday treats, Daughter took me a dinner theatre. We had never been to this particular one before (but had been to a few others.) This was in downtown St. John's. In a gorgeous old hall.
There were, of course, two of us and we were seated at a table of eight. We knew none of them. Slowly the thaw began, and we all introduced ourselves. Beside me were a thirty-something woman and her teenage son who were from the tiny village of Dildo, Newfoundland (yes, you read that right).
Beside my daughter sat a couple from Buffalo, New York. And next to them was a woman from Tasmania and her sister who was from Melbourne, Australia. A very United Nations representation indeed.
The USians made us all a little nervous, until Buffalo Hubbie said it was their fifth trip to Newfoundland and they felt they were quite Canadian now. You could see the relief around the table. As you just never, ever know. This opening gambit thawed everyone out.
The conversation soared after that. Tasmania was really interesting in that when I mentioned Richard Flanagan, one of my favourite authors, her face lit up and she told me he was one of her closest friends as they were both activists. Long chat about Richard. Melbourne had actually lived in Newfoundland on a contract for a few years a decade prior, loved it and hauled her sister to see it as she never forgot her experiences there and they were staying a month, touring. Dildo was treating her son, a theatre nut, to his first dinner theatre.
The dinner was served. Daughter and I gave the table a list of things they should see that weren't on the touristy brochures after we ascertained what interested them. Another flood of conversation about the whales and the extraordinary bird and caribou life here.
The musical show was hysterically funny and was a murder mystery in a home for the aged called "Foggy Memories."
Half-time saw a break with dessert (delicious) being served and more conversation. The Buffalos were huge fans of PBS (the US public broadcasting service) after I mentioned I was a supporter since its founding. We all had seen some of the offerings - All Creatures Great and Small, Grantchester, etc. We then sympathized with what was happening in the USA but all agreed that most Americans were not like the horror show that had taken over their government. Buffalos were quite weepy at this outpouring of support and understanding.
At the very end. We all stood along with the cast and sang "Ode to Newfoundland" the provincial anthem.
When sun rays crown thy pine clad hills,
And summer spreads her hand,
When silvern voices tune thy rills,
We love thee, smiling land.
We love thee, we love thee,
We love thee, smiling land.
When spreads thy cloak of shimmering white,
At winter's stern command,
Thro' shortened day, and starlit night,
We love thee, frozen land.
We love thee, we love thee
We love thee, frozen land.
When blinding storm gusts fret thy shore,
And wild waves lash thy strand,
Thro' spindrift swirl, and tempest roar,
We love thee windswept land.
We love thee, we love thee
We love thee windswept land.
As loved our fathers, so we love,
Where once they stood, we stand;
Their prayer we raise to Heaven above,
God guard thee, Newfoundland
God guard thee, God guard thee,
God guard thee, Newfoundland.
Count how many times "love" is mentioned in this beautiful anthem.
That sounds like a wonderful evening and quite a memorable birthday celebration.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure I know enough about PBS, but I think I know it is not a biased broadcaster, and not influenced by advertisers.
I just finished watching an episode of Grantchester, a rather gay and sad episode.
This has been a lovely post to read.
Thank you, Andrew. It was a very special evening and really lifted my spirits in many ways. Yes, PBS is very fair and balanced in reportage and marvellous docs, and interviews. Wonderful for children's educational shows too. My kids learned geometry as toddlers from Sesame Street!
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RoisinNY here. Agree with Andrew, lovely post. “Foggy Memories” title resonates with me, I need a reservation!! Yes, PBS is a treasure. Lovely birthday celebration, lovely company. Much love dear friend.
ReplyDeleteThanks R. It's been a wonderful advance birthday so far. Daughter is in West Cork at the moment and then on to Paris. Big love backatcha!!
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Happy birthday! That sounds like a lovely evening. Dinner theater is so much fun. I can imagine Buffalos feeling so grateful for everyone being understanding. I would be, too, especially as I live in a very red state and often am leery about saying where I'm from.
ReplyDeleteYes, they were very emotional and at the outset I noticed how uneasy they were. I imagine USians travelling must be. But as the night wore on they were so very interesting and their love of Canada was so intense, like a spa treatment after a horror show regime. You must have a rough time. We are all appalled in Canada as to how low the US has sunk under the madman and his cohorts.
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How sweet of your daughter to take you to a dinner theater. I have always been fascinated with your part of the world. It seems like a quiet, happy existence.
ReplyDeleteYes Ruby we are far off the beaten track and tend to be forgotten unless "You're in the know." A huge tourism and they tend to come back. It's truly very special.
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This is dated August 8th, how on earth did I miss it? The night seems to have been a lot of fun.
ReplyDeleteIt was a very special night, River, I'll remember it forever.
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