Thursday, January 11, 2024

Sporadia

 In the mail:

An annual magazine, published for well over a hundred years sent by my sister every year from my home city of Cork.  150 pages of Cork past and present and cherished by every Corkonian.



An Irish calendar from my now oldest friend still alive (70 years of unbroken friendship), also sent every year, and hung from my kitchen wall.


My hallway of postcards, many now sent by Grandgirl who lives in Paris but treks around Europe most weekends and never fails to buy a postcard everywhere, including art galleries and museums and exquisite old churches.


I was reading up on sleep requirements for eighty year-olds. I am nearly always shy on sleep and feel the lack of it in listlessness, lack of energy and a need for an  inordinate amount of waking up time to feel human. I am way under what's needed, sometimes I only get 4 hours. I was astonished to read I need about 10 hours a day as body is deteriorating and lack of sleep can contribute to "inagility of the brain," a frightening thought.

Grandgirl gifted me a Fitbit when she was here and I am now honouring (or trying to) the sleep I should be getting even if it means crashing on the bed at odd times. The Fitbit is clocking everything, heart rate, quality of sleep, steps, exercise, hydration. An enchanting new toy, offering daily detailed reports and quite unobtrusive on the wrist. It even notifies me of texts and emails.



What a time to be alive!

25 comments:

  1. I shudder to think what that toy would reveal about my sleep. I wake. Often. And often give up and get up well before dawn. Though I do take naps.
    Love your collection of postcards - and hooray for long standing friendships.

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    1. I was nervous of this aspect of the toy too but relieve as hell to know I wasn't out of my mind from my own perception of lack of it. Confirmed now and I feel far more entitled to nap when I want.
      I was at a brunch the other day nearly out of my mind with exhaustion and knew I needed a day or two with nothing absolutely nothing to do but sleep when I needed it.
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  2. The fitbit seems to give you an amazing amount of personal data. Perhaps I should get one? The insomnia is a big problem, and I have no brilliant suggestions. I could also do with a bit more sleep, as I usually wake up at about 4 am and don't always get back to sleep.

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    1. I also get the quality of my sleep which is significant as well, such as deep, rem and light. I think it might help you as it has helped me to honour the need for it. Yes, I have that 4.00 am wake thing too but I have forced myself to stay in bed and let light sleep happen.
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  3. We have a shoebox full of post cards and they tell a remarkable history in a brief way. Generally I don't save letters. My phone nags me about my step count but so far I have not gone down the Fitbit road. Can you update us in a month or so please?

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    1. My comment was lost on my own effin blog. Yes I have a box fall too, some to my mum and dad from me which I received as an inheritance. LOL.
      I will update on the fit bit here. Phone step apps are dismal. I tried many which were highly inaccurate.
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  4. All the youngsters and middlsters who work here have a Fitbit and live by it (oh, dear, I'm five thousand steps short today!). The old folks who have one can't figure how to operate them. Basic problem I see, old fingers can't push the proper buttons any more. I've ordered and returned two because I couldn't figure how to run them. But I sleep nine or so hours ever day, so no problem, I guess.

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    1. I would still be trying to set mine up Joanne but Genius Grandgirl did it all. The fitbit feeds the info onto the mobile phone via an app that she installed.
      It sounds terribly complicated but she did it in a flash. As would any 2 year old I'm sure.
      But not this 80 yo.
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  5. A great bunch of gifts and I am with you on the sleep issue.

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    1. Boy so many of us e, I get the odd good one and then bingo back to a shortage of sleep hours.
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  6. The magazine looks interesting and I like the wall of postcards. I get plenty of sleep with a two hour afternoon nap and about six hours at night.

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    1. Lucky you River, I hate napping but I have to do it to retain sanity.
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  7. I like all your not-electronic gifts. Nice magazine, good claendar and interesting postcards. I do not like e-gadgets, not because I cannot find out how to use them (I can!) but because I like to feel that I'm in charge here, not the gadget. For this reason as well I do not have a SmartPhone either, only a dumb one ;) When I'm not seated in front of my PC, I'm off-line, thank you very much.

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    1. Good methodology in your thinking, Charlotte. Unplugging is a good thing and more of us should do it.
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    2. No kidding. I have friend who say they should walk away from their smartphones more often, but do they do it? Nope. It astounds me how many of us don't more often do what we know is best for us. Including me. -Kate

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  8. If I miss out of sleep I doze in the day, whether I want to or not!. Love the post cards from your grand daughter, what a love she is.

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    1. She really is Chris. I am so very fortunate that I've been close to her all her life. She's one of the kindest (and also brilliant) people on the planet.
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  9. my daughters (especially the health professional) track their sleep with a fit bit and make lifestyle modifications to improve it. It's been a useful tool but it is known to produce anxiety in some so a good dollop of self knowledge is probably helpful in deciding how a person will react.
    It was a more primitive sleep app plus some googling that alerted me that I probably had a sleep apnea problem. It may have saved my life, who knows.
    I like your postcards and calendar. Personal gifts that show people are thinking of you

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    1. I am finding it helpful in that I now have no qualms about taking naps to compensate for shortfalls. That old Irish Catholic guilt is demolished (good for nothing lazy arse). Personal thoughts in the actual mail are so incredibly meaningful vs texts or messages. Someone going to the trouble of stamps and weighing and packaging. It never fails to touch me deeply.
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  10. I would enjoy that magazine. I so want to go to Ireland again, but fear it may never happen.
    The fitbit looks like a great idea. I should look into getting one.

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    1. I believe acceptance of our own limitations is one of the keys to successful aging. Remind me I said that on my "bad" days. Plane travel is beyond me now. I had to cancel a flight last September. Flying is not at all elder friendly and totally unpredictable.
      Yes, my Fitbit is still a great novelty!
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  11. Regarding sleep, I average about seven hours a night, but often take a nap after lunch. That seems to really refresh me and I highly recommend the habit. I certainly don't get ten hours. The magazine looks quite wonderful and I am sure it helps to reconnect you with your past. Enjoy every page - Hugs, David

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    1. Yes, that magazine is a great connection to my past David. And an afternoon nap is the best, I always put a time limit on it.
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  12. I love your granddaughter post card washing line.
    As I've grown older I seem to need a lot more sleep; if I don't get it I'm useless for about two days afterwards.
    Which rules out something I've loved doing for years - travelling to faraway places - the last time I was the only person awake on the 11 hour flight home - it was days before I felt normal again. x

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  13. I did smile at your Irish calendar; my sister sent me the self same one! x

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