Thursday, July 10, 2025

Constant Beauty

 I think if one is born to an environment of natural beauty one can be immune to it.

I find this immunity prevalent amongst many of my Newfoundland people.

Yesterday I trotted out to pick up some groceries and asked my friend with dementia if she'd like to come along and she was thrilled. I can't abide shopping and pre-order my groceries on line and then have them all loaded into my car at the pickup.

I stopped outside my home and took this photo of the fog over the Atlantic in the distance and the blues just took my breath away. "Isn't it stunning?" I said to my friend as I snapped away. "I suppose," she answered, a born and bred Newfoundlander.

So this is for Marge, who is a faithful follower and loves fogs as much as I do.

We picked up the groceries and I asked her if she'd like to trot up to Middle Cove, the glorious beach near where we live and she agreed. I said I come up here a lot and she said she would come there a lot as a child and I said never since? And she said no. I was shocked. She took a long walk on the beach. I took some photos. There were many there, kids and dogs and some fishing off the shore.



We sat for a while and she became quite emotional, remembering the picnics and "boil-ups" on the beach as a child. It had never occurred to her to just visit and just be there for an afternoon.

So I talked of the healing effect of sitting by the ocean and all its different moods. And to reflect on how small we all are in the overall scheme of things.

And she agreed and said she had been so agitated about so many different things and her stress had been bad and now she could feel herself relaxing.

Her gratitude quite overwhelmed me, she went on and on about the afternoon and what a mighty gift I had given her.

And I was reminded of something I had learned a long time ago.

Measure wealth not by the stuff you own and hoard, but by the things in life that don't cost a penny.


12 comments:

  1. So beautiful for you two, companions for the day. In a gorgeous land, a simple togetherness worth all the world can give. Lovely to read. 💞🙌😘

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    1. Thank you CJ. I have become well versed in dealing with dementia over the years and am grateful to have her trust me.
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  2. Often it is only later you appreciate the experiences that cost nothing, what is firmly planted in your memory.

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    1. Very true, my friend. The best memories are free.
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  3. Thank you for these wonderful photos, I love those big rocks near the water, great for sitting and watching the waves.

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    1. I can spend hours there River, so very calming.
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  4. I get to move to the rented lakefront cabin on Saturday and as soon as Dad's "do" on Sunday is over I will be back there, sitting on the deck, overlooking the glittering water, and it pleases me right down to my neutrons. I love the countryside where I live, but the lake is deeply relaxing and I'm so grateful to be able to stay there for awhile every summer. My spouse doesn't understand why I spend my holiday money on the cabin; he would rather be visiting people, while I don't consider that a holiday. Which is okay because he doesnt stay there with me and I like it that way!

    It's been years since I've seen the ocean. Sometimes I remember, and hanker.

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    1. There is something about water Kate that is so soothing and grounding at the same time. I am glad you get to rent a wee place by yourself and find your inner self once more. I too am happy being alone in isolated spots. Just nature and birds and wild things.
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  5. We are four days into a 5 week stay in a house by a lake that's at the coast. It's so relaxing to look out at the lake and then drive a short way and walk by the ocean. I appreciate your last sentence so much. Words to live by.

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    1. 5 weeks sounds wonderful and great surroundings as a bonus. Enjoy Sheila!
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  6. I rent a house down the shore at least once a year now, twice if I can gather up enough $$$. I used to live 2 hours away from the ocean; now I live 8. I miss it terribly. It's hard to explain that longing, though, to people who've never seen the ocean. May we all have some place that brings us such joy.

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  7. I missed it so much when I was in Ontario for so many years though the lake compensated and I was down there quite a lot. I immediately feel better when near the ocean. Yes, joy is right and getting that feel of the wild water and the sound of it. I immediately feel uplifted.
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