Tuesday, August 25, 2015
Strange Times, Unimaginable Scenarios.
My friend, who is so ill and looking at the final exit door has a huge challenge tomorrow. I keep thinking about it. My friend is nearly 70 and her parents are still alive and she has to tell them, face to face, she is dying. She wasn't going to. She had intended to have her brother break it to them when she'd passed as she is highly sensitive to prolonging pain for them. But her brother is, as he always has been, a complete and utter jerk. Oh, the stories I could tell you.
Her parents are on their way from the seniors' complex in Ottawa to Toronto where D**** is in hospital.
I can't truly imagine what this is going to be like. She's very close to her father particularly, and he will be devastated. I met her parents a few times back in the day. A spry and fun couple, her dad one of those enthusiastic jokesters interested in everyone and everything. Much like her. The news may just about kill them. Seriously.
And my own previously unimaginable scenario? Planning a dinner here in my house for Daughter, her father and his wife.
Strange times indeed.