Friday, March 15, 2019

The Talk

To me, the greatest bonus to suiting up and showing up are the unexpected delight of what ensues. My talk went extraordinarily well. I was so pleased. The audience was warm and receptive and laughed in all the right places and really listened judging by the thoughtful questions proffered afterward over the scrumptious tea, sammies and pastries.

I made a new friend - a woman who was in attendance where her fame preceded her to such an extent I had long admired her from afar - we chatted about that, making contemporary new friends in old age, and also about our activism for seniors and elder rights. She is an absolute power house, lithe, tech savvy, chair on many boards, daily workout at the gym, and at 82 is now my own personal goddess. And oh yes, she goes to her daughter's home in West Cork every summer where they are renovating a decrepit 14 bedroom old mansion. Seriously. She called me yesterday and asked me to join her family table at the swishy St. Patrick's Day dinner here but cripes didn't I have another commitment. You'd think I was a social butterfly but in reality my outings are really thin on the ground and when invitations clash I have to laugh. A rarity indeed.

I was presented with this book at the event:

And then a book was left at my door today, a book I had never heard of:

And now we're at the meat and gravy of this post. My talk which is on Soundcloud for you to listen to if you are so inclined. I had to omit so much of my life but tried to keep it relevant to the "roots" of basically losing myself and then finding myself.

(Minor irritant - and sadly so frequent at any performance these days - are those intrusive mobile phones ringing.)

Here's the link.





31 comments:

  1. I'm glad your talk was well received and to make a new friend as well is a bonus!
    Fancy helping to renovate a mansion at age 82! I can barely cope with cutting back geraniums in my daughter's garden without being too stiff to move the next day.

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    1. I know I was impressed, finally meeting her, so full of joie de vivre and so engaged politically and in activism. I didn't feel like such a loony (*grin).
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  2. So happy on your behalf, a successful speech and a new friend. Gratz!

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  3. Congratulations. I am impressed at the clarity of expression and chain of thought. The accent is easier than I had expected. Well done! Incidentally, I found out that both of us share the same year of birth!

    I am scheduled to be a speaker tomorrow at a debating society and the topic is The Concept Of God. There will be two atheists and two theists to which latter category, I have been allocated! The moderator is an agnostic or at least claims to be one!

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    1. Thank you Ramana, the face and voice behind this blog for over 15 years and you have been a reader since the beginning I think.

      Good luck with your debate. It should be interesting.

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  4. What a great talk, so warm and humorous and full of interesting anecdotes. You have a lovely voice. Still very Irish but I thought there was a trace of American as well! And what luck making a new friend in the process.

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    1. Tch tch! That should have been Canadian, not American. Fancy me linking you to that blundering idiot in the White House....

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    2. Thank you Nick. I was going to correct you but see you came back and corrected yourself. Canadianese is trez different from Yankee. :D

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  5. A great talk; and I learned a few things, like I'd never heard WWII called "the emergency." And you sure do speak lovingly of Newfoundland and make me want to visit. Ironically, I've been to Cork, but never Newfoundland which is a lot closer!

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    1. Ireland was neutral, Tom, and because of 800 years of repression and hardship and other atrocities by the British (deliberate genocide in the 1840s, etc)were hoping for the comeuppance of their oppressors.
      Newfoundland is truly special. Most visitors are blown away by it. "Come from Away" is a musical on many stages of the world right now which showcases the spirit of the Newfoundlanders welcoming thousands of 9/11 planes landing unexpectedly at an airport in the middle of nowhere on that date. If you get a chance.....

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  6. What a nice way to start my day!! I listened and really enjoyed your talk. How lovely, really lovely that you love, appreciate and feel rooted to your place in this world. To find a new friend...what good fortune.

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    1. Thank you so much Candace, I feel very fortunate indeed.

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  7. I have been immersed for the last forty minute. Totally immersed in your story. You are in love with Newfoundland, but also with Ireland, and with all of us.
    I started my blog simply to record my family, and to unearth as much as I could about my father, whose genealogy was 100% Irish, but labelled by some of my mother's relatives as Shanty Irish, did not speak of his background. What stories he could have told!
    I unashamedly stop in my tracks to listen. Thank you so much!

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  8. You have a lovely speaking voice and a lovely photo of you. Congrats on the successful chat with your audience.

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  9. First - Happy St. Patrick's Day y'all!
    Second - WWW I've tried to listen to your podcast to about the 10 minut mark but, probably due to my crappy sound system here it's difficult to hear you clearly and easily - sounds kind of hollow and echo-ish. I wonder if you have a link to a transcript for any thicko English type readers with bad sound systems? If not I shall, of course, carry on listening as best I can. Lovely photo too WWW!

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    1. Backatcha, T. Soundcloud is one of the best recording systems. I don't know what to tell you. I've sent the link out to many, many others apart from blog who have no problem with it. No transcipt as I use index cards as prompts and let it roll. I could email you the link if that would be better? And open it on some other device? It plays well on an android or Ipad also?
      Let me know.

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    2. Thanks WWW. I'll try again today. I'll look into adjusting the sound on my computer, will get Himself to help with that.

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    3. WWW - I'm listening using earbuds now and it's fine. I'm a twit! :)

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    4. Sorry for the glitch, WWW - I've listened now. I thoroughly enjoyed your talk, hearing about your memories, journeys and finding such a lovely and loving home base. Thank you! :)

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    5. Thank YOU T, for trying so hard :) I feel fortunate in the way my life has unfolded. Very satisfying - but I'm not smug about it in any way, it feels almost predestined. I think you know what I mean. Not many can say that.

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  10. What fun to get to hear you speak as though you were in my own living room, chatting over a cup of tea.

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    1. I am so glad you enjoyed it DKZ, what a pleasure it was to give it :)

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  11. Ooh! I have it bookmarked so I can listen tomorrow when I have a little more time. But so glad it went well!

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  12. Well, it took me a few days to listen to it all but well worth the time! It was like listening to my friends at home. Lovely to hear your voice and your story. Thanks for sharing it!

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    1. Thank you Molly. I am so glad you enjoyed it!

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