Sunday, November 07, 2021

My Happy Place



I held my first writing workshop in years yesterday after the fallow years of The Plague. 

There was a very satisfying turnout and I held it in the large two storey community room of my building which worked out very well. As I kept the workshop private, we had no "spectators" which happens frequently if tenants are aware of something interesting but only want to observe and not participate which I discovered to my chagrin at another group meeting. Discomfiting to say the least. 

The ambience there is quite lovely with a huge library, a propane stove in the corner, and large windows and glass doors over looking the garden and golf club behind it and upholstered window seats with a piano and a well supplied kitchen and bathroom. I will take photos next week.

I took most of  a week to get everything ready - it's a group sharing effort with prompts from me, a 10 minute exercise to flex those writing muscles and reading of individual pieces which are distributed to each other for critiques to be presented the following week.

There's a ten minute break half way through for tea and buns and getting-to-know-you interaction. 

It went far better than I anticipated. Some written pieces were extraordinary in their emotion.

The group - some of whom had never met before - seemed to get along really well. The relaxation was almost visible.

There's a lot of trust involved in sharing writing. And I observed the empathy develop. And the enthusiasm.

I truly love doing this. And I'm sure it shows.


I took this picture of my dear late friend R playing in the sand. I presented him with the bucket and spade when he stayed with me out here on The Edge. I love this image as his outer demeanor was normally so serious.

 

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  1. Sounds satisfying - the workshop - and looks satisfying - the photo.
    -Kate

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    1. Yes, satisfying doesn't quite describe it. Blissful. In my bliss, Kate!

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  2. Yes, it shows. And good for you!

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  3. Lovely photo. I would love to join a group like this but know I wouldn't as my brain tends to freeze in group situations.

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    1. You would be allowed to freeze in my group, there are two in grief there for recent losses.

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  4. How wonderful. And that it a beautiful photo to remember R. We all need to play, which too many of us forget.

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    1. Yes, so very true, EC, we lose that playful instinct or feel judged by others for showing it.

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  5. Lovely post and photo and I am glad you were able to do this. Boosts the sprit in every way.

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    1. It certainly does E. We all need these wonderful distractions/passions in our lives.

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  6. Ah, that sounds like a MUCH more enjoyable way to spend your time and energy!

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    1. So much more and beyond, SAW, I was beating my head against a wall with SOS and it took me a while to see it.

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  7. I'd be there for the tea and buns :) learning more about writing would be a bonus.

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    1. And they're a great bunch River, we would love to have you!

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  8. The workshop sounds wonderful. Is the members' writing discussed and suggestion made for improvements?
    Ron could squat down nearly as well as an Asian person.

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    1. Yes Andrew, the writing is distributed for critique/feedback the following week.

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  9. It sounds as if you're having serious fun. Enjoy!

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    1. Incredible fun after so long in the darkness Charlotte. I am reborn.

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  10. It is wonderful that the writing workshop went so well. The room sounds so appealing and conducive to shared writing. Congratulations!

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    1. And now I have a waiting list Gigi, I'm obviously doing something right!

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  11. Good that you've been able to restart the writing workshop. And it looks like it went well. My book group has had two meetings after a long meeting-less spell and we're very glad to see each other again.

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    1. My book club has its first meetup at a local golf club (great grub!) at the beginning of December. After so very long. Though I'm not enchanted with the book choice.....
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  12. The location of your writing group sounds absolutely lovely and of course the writing would be that delicious creative mix of fun and challenge.

    I would need at least a half hour for socialising!

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    1. They can do more after the workshop is over. I know I formed life-long friendships after the writing workshops I attended in Toronto. We get to know each other so well with our writing.

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  13. Congratulations on becoming actively creative again. My best wishes that you continue to be so for long.

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    1. Thank you Ramana, it has made all the difference.

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  14. Wonderful you could finally have a writing workshop again.

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  15. That is a lovely photo of your friend. Reminds me of my dad; he so loved the beach. My daughter recently got married at the beach; my dad's been gone 2 years now but felt like he was there with us, which is exactly what she wanted.

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